The idea is to write down everything that could happen in a scene, then label each as yes, no, or maybe. Then mark which ones I feel I need, and which ones I want.
My analysis of all this:
Babyfur? Since when did I want that? Well... I suppose it's not a surprise, really. Huh.
The type of sex doesn't seem to matter.
And apparently I really like being owned. Didn't that used to be a negative trigger for me?
I seem to want more pain than just light stuff, but not really heavy pain. I've not known many people who can go just a little over light pain.
And a random insight from talking with my mate:
I seem to experience a set amount of fear and embarrassment in a given week, regardless of what is happening in my life. I'd rather feel these in a scene than in reliving bad memories or worrying about things I can't change.
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